“Treat ‘em mean and keep ‘em keen”
Rule #6: Demonstrate self-worth and personal value
This rule is really a continuation and extension of the last. Some guys actually already have a vague sense of the rough concept of this rule, albeit subconsciously and, well, pretty much the wrong way round. I’ll tell you what I mean. You’ve probably heard the old adage “treat ‘em mean, keep ‘em keen”, right? Well lots of guys use this as a rule of thumb when they’re out hoping to attract women. They figure that by appearing aloof and unattainable they boost their value in the minds of women and make themselves more valuable and attractive. Unfortunately, things don’t work like that in real life. The only way a guy can play hard to get and still attract women is if he’s massively good-looking or otherwise physically rare – that might hold the interest of girls for a while longer than usual, but only because they’re silently hoping the guy will turn out to be charismatic and engaging. Remember, women prefer charismatic men over quiet, brooding guys because the charismatic guys are the ones who are going to make the girls feel wanted, appreciated, sexy and valued. When women say they like “strong, silent types” they really mean that they like good-looking men who hold back their charisma and personality until they’re in a one-on-one situation with a girl – which, of course, is hugely appealing in the fantasy world of a girl’s mind.
And this leads to the main substance of this golden rule. You must exhibit signs of self-worth and personal value when you talk to a woman if you want her to find you sexually attractive. By being quiet, even if you look confident and self-assured, you fail to show women your high social ranking and you therefore fail to get her interest.
There are lots of ways to demonstrate that you have high levels of personal value and self-worth, most of which involve verbally expressing specific types of statements. In golden rule number five I gave the example of describing an exciting and adventurous vacation you’ve recently been on. Whatever it is you decide to tell girls about, ensure the following:
- Be enthusiastic. Enthusiasm is contagious and attractive. When you’re telling women stories, put effort into making them vivid and interesting. When you do, they respond similarly – they become excited and enthusiastic, too.
- Avoid self-deprecation. This is when you put yourself down in some small or big way. In short, don’t do it. If you hate your current job or regret decisions you’ve made in the past, that’s okay – but don’t let the girls you want to attract know about them. You want to come across as secure, confident and as spontaneous as possible when you talk to women.
Now onto rule 7... Be unusual - not an average guy .
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