“Use Social Psychology To Attract And Seduce Women... Here is the simplified version”
Rule #8: Use The Female Social Psychology Rules To Your Advantage
I really can’t stress the importance of this rule enough.
It’s a major, major part of being successful with women. In fact, you could almost say that every other golden rule in some way fits under the umbrella of good social psychology.
Understanding social psychology, in relation to attracting and seducing girls, means knowing how the minds of men and women work in social situations and appreciating the psychological game that’s constantly played between them.
Here is a simplified version of the rough social situation we’re all in when it comes to attracting the opposite sex.
- Men and women both want to have sexual relationships, except in slightly different ways and for different reasons.
- For a sexual relationship to start, a man has to meet and get to know a woman, and vice versa.
- However, the vast majority of women are very choosy when it comes to the kind of man they’re willing to be with and the number of men they consider acceptable to be with in, say, a yearly period. This means men have to fight (socially speaking) for the same position and for the same women. Women, therefore, have most of the power.
- To be considered a potential partner, a guy has to fulfil a long list of criteria, and each woman has a slightly different list of criteria to the next. 99% of women aged 18-45 want a man who is: not ugly (i.e. a 6+/10), confident, spontaneous and socially high-ranking, amongst other things.
- Even when a guy has proven to a girl that he’s the kind of man she’d love to be with, the game is not yet over.
That’s because there are almost always a number of remaining obstacles that need to be by-passed before the unspoken agreement can be made between the guy and girl that they going to “get together”. These obstacles can take many forms.
The main one is the social rule that most girls abide by that says a woman shouldn’t give in to a guy’s advances until the very last moment – hence the reason for multiple dates and phone calls. Women do this as a way of maintaining the balance of power for as long as they can. It’s a security measure now built into the female subconscious mind. Another obstacle is comfort building.
There’s a big difference between a girl being really attracted to a guy and liking him immensely and a woman who likes a guy in the same way AND feels comfortable enough around him to begin an intimate relationship (or even just kiss him).
The last example of a commonly faced obstacle are the friends of the girl you want to pick-up. You see, even if a girl would like nothing more than to be with you, sometimes her social circle of friends (whether they’re there in the room with you or just in the back of her mind) will keep her from saying “yes”.
I won’t continue to dissect the social game of cat and mouse that’s constantly played between the sexes.
I’m sure you can already see that it’s complex and easily played wrongly by us guys – one wrong step can mean a failure.
However, that doesn’t mean it’s impossible to learn the ropes and play the game like a pro.
Most men haven’t got a clue about the social psychology needed in a successful seduction
If you do, you have an a monumental advantage. So keep reading this and other sections of the site!
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