“Don’t play hard to get with women - be hard to win!”
Rule #9: Don’t play hard to get - be hard to win
In rule 6 you learnt a little about this theory, but it’s too important not to talk about it a little more – too many men get it completely wrong and, as a result, have completely no success with women.
Here’s the unconscious reasoning that occurs in their minds: “Women don’t want a desperate guy, because he’s desperate for a reason: he can’t get any attention from women and is just generally a loser when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. So I’ll act like a guy who is popular with women and who can get one any time he likes. That means not paying attention to my target girl, otherwise she’ll think I’m going after her and will reject my advances.”
The thing is, only half of this line of reasoning is true. It’s correct that women don’t want guys who are desperate – they want the ‘best’ men out of the bunch, because the higher the social ranking of the guy they get with, the better it makes them look and feel. Men do the same thing: the hotter the girl, the more they feel they’ve accomplished and the better they feel about themselves by sleeping with or dating her. The second part, however, isn’t correct.
The best way to act around women to make yourself seem rare, attractive and the preferable guy for them to pick, is not to play hard to get, it’s to be hard to win. To do this you need to be just as outwardly confident and attractive around ALL women you meet and to every girl in the room – whether you’re attracted to them or not. So if you have your eye on one hot blonde who’s with 4 or 5 friends you aren’t interested in, instead of acting aloof, silent and “mysterious”, you should do the opposite. You should be interesting, funny and confident – and be that way no matter which of the girls you’re chatting to. This makes you look like a universally socially high-ranking guy who just happens to be talking to the girl you like and her friends. Your target girl sees you as a charismatic guy whether she’s around you or not – and THAT is what makes her attracted to you. Because if you chose her, she’d be highlighted as better than all of her female counterparts. And, by acting in a socially impressive and attractive way around all girls, you make it obvious in your target girl’s mind that you aren’t just playing her to get something you want. It just looks like that’s the way you are – a massively attractive guy.
Re-read that last paragraph again if you have to and really try to absorb the information it contains. All master pick-up artists understand the principles it outlines like the backs of their hands.
Now onto rule 10... Flirt all of the time. With every woman. Without fail.
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